In response, I criticized them and judged them harshly. Just by being themselves and expressing their individuality, my fears of rejection and getting hurt surfaced. Each one of them brought out many of my insecurities.
Indeed, my relationships with those two lasted quite a few years, but it wasn’t without difficulty.Īs the Saturn person, I felt both insecure and committed to each of them. Sun-Saturn aspects in synastry are apparently very common aspects to find in the synastry charts of married couples and long-term partners. Incidentally, he had Saturn transiting his 7 th house when we were together. My most recent ex had his Sun in Aquarius square my Saturn in Scorpio. More specifically, my Saturn was conjunct his Sun in Scorpio. It made total sense, given the fact that Saturn was transiting my 7 th house at the time. My first ex boyfriend and I had strong Saturn aspects in our synastry chart. Saturn aspects are certainly binding, but come with many problems. Saturn represents depression, restriction, fear of rejection, distancing, as well as commitment. Mars quintile or biquintile Saturn brings stability to a sexual relationship helping it to develop into a more long term relationship.Saturn aspects in synastry are notoriously difficult to handle. Mars quincunx or semi-sextile Saturn is much more about balancing sex life with commitments and there may be a need to sort out issues and to work together more by communicating. If Mars is in an earth sign or earth is strong in the natal chart especially in relation to Venus, this aspect could be extra sexy. Both parties will never grow tired of each other in a sexual relationship this denotes long term sexual attraction and sexual fulfilment. Both partners supply what the other needs from a sexual relationship and this relationship can be very sensual and erotic. Mars sextile or trine Saturn is easier to handle because it is less dynamic this aspect could also indicate a long-term commitment and shows a sexual relationship which has the strength and durability to last. Outside the bedroom there is good compromise between Mars rushing head long into al sorts of unforeseen quagmires and Saturn’s slowness to react to change both partners may find the perfect solution to those extremes within themselves in their partner.
All that is required is to allow both partners to do what they do best let Mars take the lead with trying anything new and trust Saturn when it comes to fulfilment. The Saturn partner more than meets the sexual needs of Mars but will have to be prepared to give some spontaneity and control up to the Mars, however Mars may need to work harder on fulfilling the Saturn needs which require deep commitment and very sensual slow arousal rather than being rushed as Saturn is a thorough lover who focuses more on fulfilling pleasure and desire. Mars conjunct, square or opposite Saturn can indicate a sexual dynamic in which sexual energy is more stable and deeply fulfilling for both parties but which has a difficulty with fluidity and adaptation. If Saturn has Mars in its sights he will pursue over the long term rather than seek instant gratification, he wants more complete connection and bond. Saturn is prepared to wait for what it wants and to work hard to get it. Both these planets have a strong sexual fertile nature however Mars demands instant gratification where as Saturn demands long term satisfaction. Mars the God of sex and war meets Saturn the God of fertility, patience and hard work.
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